Yes, we are expecting a little one to join us this year, by the grace of God! And as you can see, no one is more thrilled than this boy!
If you follow me on my Instagram or Facebook, this will come as a late announcement. Sorry! But here it is anyway and some quick updates about this pregnancy and life recently!
I’m on indefinite bed rest. Huhu.
I am unfortunately suffering from internal bleeding (thankfully, not external!) and was advised to be on bed rest. This means, no work, no leaving the house or even going down the stairs, no stressful activities (bed rest is stressful though? haha) and saddest of all, NO TRIPS. Huuuu.
So I’ve been stuck at home for a month now. My amazing husband has been taking care of everything else (as in, dealing with household matters, going to the grocery, taking care of Luke, buying what I need and to think, he’s doing this all on top of his work!) Applause, please!
I’m also so grateful for my parents-in-law who take Luke out every now and then so he doesn’t get bored (he’s already saying I’m pretty boring haha!) and to my brothers who visit once in a while and who I can count on whenever I need an extra pair of eyes and hands when Mor just really has to go to work already. Hee.
Also so grateful for friends who have helped out in different ways, either by spending time with Luke or tolerating my rants on Viber (thanks Angeli and Milka especially for that haha!) If anybody wants to take Luke out on a date, please just let me know! :p
It seriously takes a village to raise a child!
I’m nauseous most of the time
People have been saying I must have loads of time now to do things I enjoy like read books or work on more blog entries but, oh boy, how I wish! If only I didn’t feel so nauseous every hour! I can barely do anything that requires thinking (which is obvious from the fact that I’ve had no new blog entries for weeks now. EEP.) and this blog entry in itself is a miracle.
The truth is, all I’ve been doing is watching Netflix.
Which isn’t bad at all because I’ve been learning so much. Even my husband is impressed! Haha.
So far, I’ve learned about the many faces of American Politics (from documentaries like “Bobby Kennedy for President,” “The Final Year,” which was about Obama and even “Trump: An American Dream” lol,) important moments in Spanish History (not to mention Spanish catchphrases after I finished all seasons of “El Ministerio del Tiempo” which is awesome btw,) a few things about American History (thanks to “Timeless,”) some stuff about British castles and The British Monarchy and I’ve also seen a few science-related ones (like from the episode “Tesla vs Edison” of “Genius”) I’m excited to watch Mercury 13 next.
At least, I’m trying to get some education while I’m temporarily an unproductive citizen. Haha.
I’m also borderline gestational diabetic
Okay, so as if bed rest (which comes with reflux by the way, from too much lying down) and nausea isn’t enough, I also recently found out that I was borderline gestational diabetic. And to think I don’t even really like sweets! But the doctor said it was because of all the carbs I’ve been eating and I can’t dispute that. I loooove my bread and pasta! And now they are gone. HUUUUU. *Crying a river*
So now I have no idea what to eat. I would really like some sugar-free popsicles now just to make me feel less nauseous but the endocrinologist said, nu-uh sister. *sigh* Can anybody send me some low carb, sugar-free bread please (that’s not sprinkled with aspartame, as per the doctor?)
WHAT DO I EAT NOW?
BUT GOD IS ENOUGH
When you are suffering or feeling bad and people keep saying “You should stop complaining, some people have it worse!” it doesn’t really make you feel better even though it’s true, right? I used to think that I can win this battle of self-pity by thinking of all the positive things but it’s not always easy to do especially when you feel really defeated.
Thankfully, Christ is enough and this is what I try to remind myself daily.
I know in my head I am blessed beyond measure and that of course this pregnancy is such a blessing but the truth is, I don’t always feel happy, I don’t always feel strong and I most definitely don’t always feel positive 24/7 and I guess that’s okay. I’m learning to take it one step at a time (my husband’s motto lately haha) and to just lean on God for every small and big thing.
Prayers Requested
Thank you to all of you guys who have been praying for us and sending encouragement. If you could spare me a prayer, please pray for these:
- The baby will be healthy and strong and that there will be no complications
- No more subchorionic hemorrhage so I don’t have to be on bed rest anymore
- I won’t feel nauseous for long (just like in my easy pregnancy with Luke!)
Thank you again so much and if you’ve made it this far, thank you for coming alongside us on this journey.
38 Comments
Monique | SkeletonWeirdo
May 10, 2018 at 3:45 pmCONGRATULATIONS. so sorry to hear that it isn’t the easiest pregnancy, but you know that there is a fantastic ray of sunshine at the end of the tunnel :). <3!
Sheena Sy Gonzales
May 10, 2018 at 5:25 pmThanks Monique! Yes looking forward to the day I get to hold my new little peanut!! Thank you!
Cris
May 10, 2018 at 4:10 pmCongratulations Wishing you all the best Super happy for you Get better soon!
Sheena Sy Gonzales
May 10, 2018 at 5:26 pmThanks so much Cris!
Cris
May 23, 2018 at 4:42 amYou are very welcome xoxo Cris
Jennifer
May 10, 2018 at 8:55 pmCongrats Sheena!!
Sheena Sy Gonzales
May 12, 2018 at 9:49 amThanks Jennifer!
Nicole
May 11, 2018 at 8:19 amCongratulations Sheena! Praying for you and your family.
Sheena Sy Gonzales
May 12, 2018 at 9:49 amThanks so much Nicole!
Luz
May 11, 2018 at 8:56 amPraying for you and your family Sheena! In deed Christ is enough.
Sheena Sy Gonzales
May 12, 2018 at 9:48 amThank you so much Luz yes Christ is enough!
Mav
May 11, 2018 at 6:54 pmCongratulations! Keeping you and your baby in my prayer tonight. Don’t worry to much
Sheena Sy Gonzales
May 12, 2018 at 9:48 amAww thanks so much Mav, I really appreciate that!
Nancy
May 14, 2018 at 6:57 amCongratulations on expecting another child! I’m happy that you’ve been taken care of and so happy that your husband has been the real MVP. I’m happy that you’re taking it easy and OMG!!! I’ve seen some documentaries about Tesla – highly recommended if you have some down time.
I am sorry to hear that you’re borderline gestational diabetic. Hope you’ll find some good alternative food. Sending you lots of good vibes.
Sheena Sy Gonzales
May 14, 2018 at 4:54 pmI think there’s a show on Tesla, will definitely check that out!! Thanks so much Nancy! <3
Didier
May 14, 2018 at 10:05 pmCongratulations! Thats exciting news! Bed rest isn’t the most fun though but you can definitely occupy your time with books and TV at least!
Sheena Sy Gonzales
May 15, 2018 at 1:11 pmYes, thanks Didier. Just praying I don’t feel nauseous 24/7 anymore!
Jessica
May 15, 2018 at 7:38 amThis is amazing, congratulations dear! So sorry to hear about your condition. Nothing’s sexier than a man who does the household chores!
Sheena Sy Gonzales
May 15, 2018 at 1:10 pmHaha ain’t that the truth!
Nistha Saraf
May 15, 2018 at 2:03 pmSuch a great post, nice that you have a helping hand! Take care!
Nistha
Sheena Sy Gonzales
May 16, 2018 at 9:09 pmYes can’t imagine what I’ll do without them. Thank you!
Patricia & Miguel
May 15, 2018 at 7:27 pmAww best news ever! Children are the best in the world and we are more than sure that the beautiful child you expect will be so so happy and free, just like yourself 😀 Congratulations and all the best!
xx
Sheena Sy Gonzales
May 16, 2018 at 9:09 pmThank you both!
Len Parent
May 16, 2018 at 11:03 amOMG Huge congrats!!! I’m so happy for your family!!! Hope you feel better soon.
Thanks for sharing the news!
Have a great week!
Much love, Len
Sheena Sy Gonzales
May 16, 2018 at 9:09 pmThanks so much Len! <3
jane
May 16, 2018 at 3:23 pmCongratulations dear and i am wishing you all the best
Healthy baby on the way!
Sheena Sy Gonzales
May 16, 2018 at 9:10 pmThanks so much Jane! Appreciate it!
Colleen
May 18, 2018 at 5:22 amCongratulations! Praying for you as well!
Sheena Sy Gonzales
May 23, 2018 at 10:31 pmThank you soo much, appreciate the prayers!
lesley kim
May 23, 2018 at 8:32 amHow exciting!! Congratulations on this news =)
Sheena Sy Gonzales
May 23, 2018 at 10:30 pmThanks Lesley!
Eena
May 28, 2018 at 3:28 amCongratulations on the newest addition to your family, Sheena! Praying you have a safe and joyful pregnancy!
Sheena Sy Gonzales
May 30, 2018 at 9:58 amThanks so much Eena!!
Susie | Mile High Dreamers
June 5, 2018 at 3:10 amAhhhh THIS IS SO EXCITING! You guys are such wonderful and inspiring parents to Luke, it only makes sense you’d be blessed with another little one. That being said, it sounds like you’re dealing with a LOT. I can’t imagine how stir crazy you must be getting on bed rest, especially feeling sick on top of that. Thank goodness for Netflix :). We are sending all of our prayers for a strong and healthy pregnancy your way!
Sheena Sy Gonzales
June 5, 2018 at 11:31 amThank you so much Susie!! It’s been overwhelming and stressful to be honest but just trusting in the Lord. Thank you for your prayers!!
Jansell Iris Simbulan
June 28, 2018 at 1:16 pmCongratulations Sheena and to your beautiful family! I love reading your blog – not only you glorify God through your gifts/talents but also you are able to share His love, wisdom, faithfulness and amazing grace with your adventures. God bless you! <3
Sheena Sy Gonzales
July 2, 2018 at 1:19 pmHi Jansell thank you soooo much for such a sweet message. All glory to God.
kali
June 29, 2018 at 10:22 pmcongrats!